Okey, now I will be tell what a biggest fear of my life. My fears is when choosing a choice. Why ??? Because I'm afraid it was wrong choice and failed. When the choice is wrong I will regret for too long. Moreover, if I fail I will feel frustrated. Why is that? Because I'm a perfectionist.
Before I got confused, how can I resolve. Now I will tell you, how do I handle it.
1. Make decision
Once you make your choice, decide that you want to live happy about it. This may seem cliché, but many people never decide and commit fully to their dreams. They just continue to "think" about it. Alternatively, when the first obstacle appeared, they give up.This may seem cliché, but many people never decide and commit fully to their dreams. They just continue to "think" about it. Alternatively, when the first obstacle appeared, they give up.
Make a commitment to yourself. Now is not the time to worry about how to make it happen, or how you will move through your challenges. Conversely, planting the seeds of your dreams in themselves and make a commitment to love this seed until one day you harvest the fruits of your efforts.
Honor your commitment to yourself. No one can break you apart from your own. Make a commitment about what you want and stand strong in your commitment. No matter how challenging, how fearful, or may seem impossible to achieve, decide that you will still grab it! Why? Because no other reason than because you want it and you have made the decision to it. Other people will not do for you.
2. Don't be affraid
As you move forward in your dreams, doubts and fears will appear faster than what you expect. To continue to move beyond your fear, it helps if you learn to separate ourselves from fear, for example, than you think "I am afraid", learn to say, "no part of me that was afraid and did not want to move forward, but in somewhere else inside me there is also a desire to keep moving forward. "
No matter how scary it seems, decided to sit down with your fear by accepting its presence, but not to approve. The reception helped because by avoiding not make it go away, find another way also does not make them disappear, and neglect did not make the pain that appears diminished. So keep breathing, then tell yourself that even though you feel intense fear, you can still take action. Stare fear in front of your eyes and let your eyes out, then say "you are not the boss of me!". Take the steps necessary to obtain equipment and new strategies to move forward with your dreams once again.
So, how we can choose ? Things stored in my heart is if given the choice choose one that you think is most correct and if it is chosen will not regret for the future.
This is my biggest fair and my opinion to resolve, thankyou so much. I'm sorry if there are words that are wrong.
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